TALK DIFFERENT

Have you ever spent a day with people who mourn a lot.People who see the negative in everything and hardly talk about positive outcomes.Their jobs distress them ,they feel overworked,used and underpaid.Their employers are selfish and do not appreciate them.Their collegues are not spared and when their done with trashing everything about their employment, they move on to talk about their spouses who are lazy, good –for –nothing and will drag them down to poverty.Their children are not good enough either-they are a problem and should be locked up somewhere and get fixed.Such people will talk negatively about everything from politics to religion and everybody.How do you feel after spending a whole day with such a person?You got that right !Tired and very depressed!

The reason why pessimists are tiring and depressing is because words are very strong and they have a creative force.Their words become the virus which  infects your your enthusiasm,motivation and invades your peace.Never mind that they are not happy themselves and will drag the whole world down with them into the bottomless abyss of their misery ,but notice how their words affects the environment around them and learn what this means to you.When you have decided to live an effective life and to succeed ,start talking differently.

Your talk should reflect the inner confidence and sense of absolute conviction in you.Your speech should show that you are a positive person who knows what there are saying and doing.It should reflect you anticipation of success,the aroma of hope in the face of challenges should be sensed and the scent of courage ,determination and encouragement should always carry your words.Wherever you are,those around you should feel encouraged and always look forward to see you again when its your time to leave not to be happy to see your back.Talk positively,express that tomorrow will be better even when it doesn`t feel like it and be enthusiastic when you are engaging others.Practise doing this and after some time it will come naturally to.

In my experience,people who behave like this are some of the most liked and happy people.Their words begin to affect their efforts and where others struggle, they go through the same tasks and seem to always get far much better results.Ultimatly,most successful people are characteristically some of the most positive people and---yes---always talk differently.Watch and change your talk and start talking differently.

So,do not talk yourself out of it.Talk different.

By EDWARD NGUNDU

edwardngundu@yahoo.com